On January 15th I posted “It’s a choice between Marriage or Madness” which was my response and thoughts after reading the script of a debate that Dr. Mohler had participated in. (Since that time a friend of mine received the actual debate on a video tape that I will be watching.) There have been several comments to this post on both sides of the fence dealing with this issue, which I appreciate and encourage, however, there are some comments left that spur in me a desire to write even more about the issue. Rather than leaving a huge comment and response to the old post I have decided to post my response as a new entry in order to allow for more discussion of this issue.
Sexual orientation is a farce! I certainly do not believe that people have an innate sexual disposition towards homosexuality. If that were true then we would have to consider whether people also have an inherent nature towards bestiality, pedophilia, and maybe even murder. Homosexuals claim they cannot help their condition because they are born with it, however any sexual perverse person can make the very same claim. If homosexuality is legalized because of this then shouldn’t we also legalize any sexual orientation making it ok to have sex with children, animals, and small inland creatures? We should certainly stop punishing all of these poor innocent people for the murder and crimes they commit because they are nothing more than slaves to their own predisposition. In fact no one should be accountable for anything because we are all born with a certain nature that does not allow us to make choices. That simply does not make any sense! Religious leaders absolutely do not need to separate sexual orientation from sexual morality. There is only one orientation, that is between a married man and woman and anything outside of that is immorality.
Homosexuality is an abnormality. A relationship like this is not normal in any sense. I have known and still know a number of homosexual people and in fact, I have family members who are active homosexuals. It perplexes me that homosexuals claim to have natural relationships and yet the very premise of their relationship is based on deceit. In almost all homosexual relationships, one person is ‘the woman’ of the relationship. This person acts like a woman, walks like a woman, talks like a woman, and has very feminine qualities even if they are a man! It is unnatural for a man to be a woman or a woman to be a man and yet homosexuals have to pretend they are one or the other in order to make their ‘mock’ relationship work. Therefore, you have women who dress like men and walk and act as if they are men and vise versa because they are playing a deceitful roll in an obviously unnatural relationship. If homosexuality was a natural relationship then both men could be and act like men and both women could be and act like women, and they would have the ability to procreated with one another to carry on their family genes just like all the other natural families… but wait a minute… they don’t have that ability! It is an abnormality and a perversion of what God intended the family to be.
I realize this is a hot topic that is swallowed up in disagreement and bickering, but it is also a very serious issue. To claim that homosexuals are born with a certain sexual orientation is to claim that God made homosexuals who they are and accepts them as such. If that were the case then this would not even be an issue today… the problem is that is not the case at all. There is no evidence of natural, healthy, homosexual relationships in the bible, but there is plenty to say about this type of behavior being unnatural, perversion, depravity, and the like. Our present culture should not be the standard to which we hold the bible, but the scripture should be the standard of which we hold society accountable to. Unfortunately everyone would like to make the Bible say what it doesn’t and attribute qualities to God that He does not have.
I look at the levels of divorce, abortion, violence, and corruption in America today and know that the defining issue is not homosexuality, but sin. We are a nation filled with it, enamored by it, and slaves to it. Homosexuality is just one of many sins that defile the creation of God and corrupt what he has created to be pure, holy, and blameless. I sleep soundly knowing that I am covered by the blood of Christ and I wait eagerly for the day to be face to face with Him. Yet it is ever so startling to know that in a nation filled with divorce, abortion, violence, corruption, sexual perversions and the like, it is because of these things that the wrath of God is coming. Not only will God turn us over to sin so our own sin will destroy us, but in the end His full wrath will burn against those who are not followers of Christ, and that indeed should be feared.
God made us in his image and we have been trying to return the favor ever since! Maybe it is time we start living how God wants instead of living how we want and then bending the truth of God to fit our lifestyles.
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